Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts

Day 265 Shit



August 31, 2015


(If we live with an open and grateful attitude, every day will bring a gift. This is one of 365 gifts during the year I turned 70.)

 
There is beauty even in a dead rose.
Today marks the day that leads into the last hundred days of my 365 project where I focus on daily "gifts." I do not retreat as Thoreau did, but I do live each day deliberately, recognizing the good and the meaningful. I acknowledge my body aches with a nod and then go try to on to better things. I cannot control my inherited genes and the aging body, but I can control my focus and response.

Each day I have choices. I can spend time doing things that suck my soul or I can choose to welcome what lifts my soul. I have the power to shuffle priorities and change what I place at the top. I can choose to clutch the negative, or I can embrace the positive, or I can create something that weaves both together.

Long ago, I heard a story that defines a pessimist, an optimist and a realist. The stage is set with a pile of manure, a rose bush and a shovel. Someone comes by, notices the smell of the manure and declares, "Life is shitty!" as he hurries away pinching his nose and not seeing anything else. The second person comes by, bends over to smell the roses and purrs, "Isn't life wonderful!" He continues, ignoring the other items. A third person walks into the scene, stops and examines what he sees. He then picks up the shovel, puts the manure around the rose bush and continues on his way. No words are necessary because the action says it all.

We can complain because rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.” ~ (unsubstantiated source: Abraham Lincoln? Alphonse Karr? B. Fay Mills? Roe Fulkerson? J. Kenfield Morley? Anonymous?)

 My gift today is choice.
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Too Many Choices?


© Photo by Bonnie Schupp


Which one should I choose? Elastic, fabric, flexible or new skin liquid bandage? Waterproof, heavy-duty waterproof, water block plus or breathable comfort wrap? Tough strips or gentle hypoallergenic strips? Color, clear or sheer? Small, regular, large, extra-large or assorted? Anti-bacterial, advanced healing hydrocolloid or advanced healing blister care? Disney princess, Hello Kitty, Mickey Mouse, Disney Pixar, Sponge Bob, Sesame Street, Dora the Explorer, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles or plain?
This is a sticky problem. Maybe I should buy the stretch net that eliminates the need for adhesive bandages?

Four long CVS shelves accommodate an array of way too many boxes of bandages or Band-Aids. When I was a young girl, if my mother sent me to the store to buy some Band-Aids, I would be in and out of the store in an instant. Today, it takes me 15 minutes at least to study all the choices, another 5 minutes to make up my mind, and another 5 minutes to question the wisdom of my choice. 

We pride ourselves in our freedom of choice, but have we come to the place where our freedom is actually enslaving us? Having so many options is overwhelming and at the very least, time consuming. Is consumer choice causing anxiety?  Is constant decision-making affecting our sanity and taking time away from things that really matter?

Rather than an entire aisle, part of one shelf of bandages is plenty for me.

Is less better? Perhaps. 

Check out the links below and you decide. (Please note: Because I am a kind-hearted human being, I have intentionally limited your choices for reading.)

(If you do not have time to look at all the following links, this one is the best.)
“The tyranny of choice: You choose.” The Economist, http://www.economist.com/node/17723028         

“Are too many choices a bad thing?” Mother Nature Network, http://www.mnn.com/money/personal-finance/stories/are-too-many-choices-a-bad-thing

“Why does having too many options make it harder to choose?” How Stuff Works, http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/choose-options.htm    

In case you doubt what I said about bandages, check out the 5 (yes, five!) pages for bandages on the CVS Web site.
http://www.cvs.com/shop/Health-&-Medicine/First-Aid/Bandages/_/N-3uZ13lji6Z2k?pt=SUBCATEGORY&pageNum=1&sortBy=&navNum=20