Day 363 Ornamental Grass



December 7, 2015

(If we live with an open and grateful attitude, every day will bring a gift. This is one of 365 gifts during the year I turned 70.)


On my walk in Downs Park today, I stopped to admire ornamental grass growing in clumps near the main office. These clusters are especially beautiful when I study their texture accentuated with back or side light from the sun. Each long stalk contains a clump of “fingers” curving downward and holding hundreds of seeds. I cannot help but reach out to feel the feathery fingers that seem to hold the sun’s silky rays along with millions of seed possibilities for future generations. 

On windy days, I observe how the tall stalks bend with the wind. This is not a sign of weakness. In fact, the park ranger tells me ornamental grasses are hardy and she offers seedlings if I’d like some for my yard. These stalks bend in the wind but return to stand tall on a still day. Perhaps this is really a sign of strength—its ability to be flexible. Is this another life lesson from Mother Nature?

Nature paints texture on life’s canvas, giving it depth, meaning and narrative. The texture in my hands tells a story of hands that have dipped emerging prints in developer while I watched darkroom magic in amazement. Multiplying lines on my face were etched with millions of smiles throughout 70 years. The roughness in my voice grew from years of teaching young minds to grow. And the texture in my mind makes the fertile ground where creative thoughts bloom. 

My gift today is texture.

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Day 364: Rice Krispy Treats


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Day 362 Disconnecting and Connecting


December 6, 2015

(If we live with an open and grateful attitude, every day will bring a gift. This is one of 365 gifts during the year I turned 70.)


It is a paradox that sometimes we have to disconnect in order to connect. I remember when beepers and then cell phones began to become ubiquitous. I resisted it at first, saying that I did not want to be at the disposal of others 24/7. 

Technology has improved exponentially since those early days and I now have a smart phone. I understand the attraction and how constant contact can become addictive. I often ignore the constant notification beeps on my phone, sometimes putting it on airplane mode. I never thought I’d say it, but much as I like the instant gratification of quick access to information, there are times when the circuit breaker in my head clicks from too much information. 

Some clever apps have been developed for long distance relationships, LDR, “apps that let you touch one another.” Hello?! As easy as today’s technology makes connection possible for humans, there’s one thing it can’t do, in spite of the claims. Physical touching and real hugs are impossible remotely. Between legal restrictions regarding touching in schools and our reliance on technology, our culture might be in danger. I remember the first day of school when I taught at Annapolis Middle School. Teachers lined up in the hall as students entered the building. I watched students and teachers begin the school year with hugs but, sadly, that is not allowed any more. 

Human, real-time touching is necessary for humanity to survive. This weekend, I turned off my cell phone and connected in person with friends—including hugs. Nothing can beat this.

My gift today is being in touch without technology.

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Psychology Today on the need for human touch
            

> Day 363: Ornamental Grass

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Day 361 Let it be a Dance



December 5, 2015

(If we live with an open and grateful attitude, every day will bring a gift. This is one of 365 gifts during the year I turned 70.)



Dance is the hidden language of the soul.” Martha Graham

What a beautiful Saturday, full of friends, art, food and drink. Gary fixed a hearty breakfast and then we went to Sharon Zarambo’s open studio where we had delicious gumbo soup and browsed her soul-touching art. After that, we drove to DuCard’s winery where we were treated to excellent wine and a friendly Santa.

Dinnertime was filled with more drinks and a gourmet dinner prepared by Stacy and Rayned. After dinner, another clear and full night sky called to me while Geri and Gary snuggled near the fire and Stacy and Rayned played dance songs from his iPhone through my miniature Bose speaker. Standing outside in the chilly air with the door closed,  I could not hear the music but through the large windows, I saw their bodies swinging out, twirling, and coming together again. Watching them dancing, without hearing the music, touched something in me...a magic moment. I watched a blur of movement that told me the music lived inside of them, inside of their life together. 

In A Gift from the Sea, Anne Morrow Lindbergh wrote, "A good relationship has a pattern like a dance..." The dancers know "they are moving to the same rhythm, creating a pattern together, and being invisibly nourished by it. The joy of the pattern is not only the joy of creation or the joy of participation; it is also the joy of living in the moment."

It reminded me of a 1977 song, Let It Be a Dance, that still sings in my heart, an original piece by a Unitarian songwriter, with contagious simple lyrics and tune but so true. 
Morning star comes out at night,
Without the dark there is no light.
If nothing’s wrong, then nothing’s right.
Let it be a dance.
~ Ric Masten, .

Life is a dance and the best dance is a joy-filled blur on a star-filled night.

My gift today is a dance.  

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A sermon about Ric Masten and Let It Be a Dance:
http://199.237.214.160/sermons/LetitBeaDance.pdf 

> Day 362: Disconnecting and Connecting

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Day 360 Connecting the Dots



December 4, 2015

(If we live with an open and grateful attitude, every day will bring a gift. This is one of 365 gifts during the year I turned 70.)

 
The night sky holds Orion's Belt near the center of this photo.
Today we traveled with Stacy and Rayned to Etlan, Virginia where we were invited to spend the weekend at Sun Dancer with Geri and Gary. The property where their lodges are—Spirit Dancer, Sun Dancer and Star Dancer—borders on the Shenandoah National Park. This weekend will have no cell phone or Internet connections.

These days, we are all used to instant connection via mobile phone or computer. It is technology that makes this possible but when technology is unavailable, we are forced to connect in ways that rely only on face-to-face time where spaces are filled with hugs, discussions and actually doing things together. 

Tonight I went outside, listened to the silence above, and saw more stars than I can count. Looking up, I felt a connection to these distant bright balls of gas that inspired people long ago to create pictures and stories by connecting the dots in the sky. Other humans far away also look up at these distant points of light and, like me, are awed. In a way, during our lifetime, we are all our own stars secured to the earth by gravity and given the task of connecting the dots, the spaces among ourselves. 

My father once asked David about his philosophy of afterlife. David told him he believes we are made of stardust and that when we die, we become part of the universe. 

The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself.” ~ Carol Sagan

My gift today is many millions points of light.

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> Day 361: Let It Be a Dance

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